(I tried to reply, but somehow didn't see my post, and your original thread disppeared.)
One of my colleagues, white male, could not have his own baby. He got a baby from a hospital right after a teenage mom gave birth and decided to give him away.
He and his wife take good care of the baby. We talk about the baby every time when we have lunch together and I can tell from his face how much they love the little one.
There are many families want to adopt babies. Please contact hospitals and churchs for help to match you.
There are love in people. Trust others. I think this is a way better choice if you yield to the pressure of life (I guess it's not only from your parents. Don't use anyone as your shield. You're adult and you are supposed to make your own decision.)
I'm so surprised to read ladys thinking in that way -- only parents know how hard the decision is. I guess drifter and snowbird are still young and single. Children are not start-ups, or anything else with a prict tag.
