going to Shanghai U for graduate study is a good idea given that u may not be able to find any OK job anywhere in China.
most CQ girls will become relatively prettier in Shanghai
when u do not have any card to play, u may have to consider this is ur last card although u are not willing to do so
we have almost 30 girls from this English corner to Shanghai and some already have BFs who are PhD students in promising fields with great future
Of course the best for girls is to be independent women, however, with the job market at its 60 yr low, being independent is next to impossible for someone who does not have any card to play.
What are the cards?
Talents
Beauty
Money
Connections [or "relationship" in Chinese English]
Brain like Jessica's [she is a 二专生 at our English corner]