作者 |
我是否应该为了我自己走出我无爱的婚姻? |
|
所跟贴 |
我是否应该为了我自己走出我无爱的婚姻? -- shagua - (3469 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 04:24 (2624 reads) |
Crush
头衔: 海归少校
加入时间: 2004/07/05 文章: 122
海归分: 14436
|
|
作者:Crush 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
Sorry to hear your story. I am afraid nobody can provide right answers for you. Maybe you can ask yourself these questions to help you think through.
-- is he the right man I want to spend rest of my life with?
-- I only live once. If I spend my entire life with this man, will I regret when I am in dying bed? Will he regret too?
-- obviously there is a big gap between your expectation and his performance. If try marriage consoling (some insurance cover), is there any hope at all that I will lower my expectation and he will perform better?
-- After I divorce him, if I don't find love or a husband for rest of my life, will I regret? Can I live without a man?
After you think through these fundamental questions, the rest of it will become easier. You don't have to have marriage license to take care of someone or provide financial support for someone. After all, he is the father of your daughter and he has been a big part of your life. You two can still be friends.
I think if a man truely loves a woman, he will want her to be happy. His happies lies on hers. If he truely loves you, he won't want to see you so unhappy and he will set you free. Otherwise, he is being selfish.
Good luck!
Crush with liberal mind
作者:Crush 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
|
|
|
返回顶端 |
|
|
|
- 我是否应该为了我自己走出我无爱的婚姻? -- shagua - (3469 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 04:24 (2624 reads)
- 我的看法 -- oooops - (522 Byte) 2004-10-30 周六, 08:06 (441 reads)
- 他人的想法,供参考 -- 翠花 - (144 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 13:26 (582 reads)
- my 2 cents -- Crush - (1264 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 13:18 (543 reads)
- 天下乌鸦一般黑 -- 找 北 - (173 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 12:20 (577 reads)
- agree. -- ps2 - (97 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 20:36 (343 reads)
- 但求最好问的妙 -- 狼协 - (84 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 13:02 (426 reads)
- 为什么 -- babyblue - (242 Byte) 2004-10-25 周一, 11:25 (357 reads)
|
|
|
您不能在本论坛发表新主题, 不能回复主题, 不能编辑自己的文章, 不能删除自己的文章, 不能发表投票, 您 不可以 发表活动帖子在本论坛, 不能添加附件不能下载文件, |
|
|