第一次听到Sade的这首By your side, 是在Sex and the City第四个season第13集里，Samantha和Richard在天台泳池游泳完毕后，Richard放起这首歌，两个人裹着浴袍跳慢四，背景是黎明的天空和纽约的高楼大厦，拍得很好。
那个场景配这首歌实在贴切得好笑，因为Samantha见了男人的确很喜欢get down on her knees。
那是Sex and the City六个season当中我以为最浪漫的一个场景，不仅因为浪漫，而且因为它发生在最意想不到的人身上。Samantha是最游戏人生的，可是在那个时刻，却也被爱而不是性感动了。就像Carrie 的旁白说：
Samantha finally threw in the towel. All this time, she has been trying to make him the perfect d*ck, fighting her feelings that he might be ----- the perfect Richard.
Sex and the City我最喜欢第四个season, 而且我猜他们其实本来想拍到那个season就结束的，后来是为了商业利益才加出season 5和 season 6。(所以那几个演员在拍season 5的时候接二连三地生孩子，那个season特别短。)
SADE - By Your Side Lyrics
you think i'd leave your side baby
you know me better than that
you think i'd leave you down when you're down on your knees
i wouldn't do that
i'll tell you you're right when you want
and if only you could see into me
ha ah ah ah ah ah
oh when you're cold
i'll be there
hold you tight to me
when you're on the outside baby and you can`t get in
i will show you you're so much better than you know
when you're lost and you're alone and you cant get back again
i will find you darling and i will bring you home
and if you want to cry
i am here to dry your eyes
and in no time
you'll be fine
you think i'd leave your side baby
you know me better than that
you think id leave you down when you're down on your knees
i wouldn't do that
i'll tell you you're right when you want
and if only you could see into me
ha ah ah ah ah ah
oh when you're cold
i'll be there
hold you tight to me
when you're low
i'll be there
by your side baby
oh when you're cold
i'll be there
hold you tight to me
oh when you're low
i'll be there
by your side baby
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