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标题: a big and hard question for yourself (2810 reads) 时间: 2006-4-19 周三, 22:36

作者：250 在海归商务发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

are you any different from other chinese? (if so, where and how, and what do you think caused such differences?)

when years go by that we are outside china, we preserve a piece of china within ourselves the way we prefer to remember china. we may up date ourselves from time to time each time we go back there or when we talk to others who have been there

when you talk to non chinese, you feel you are chinese, when you talk to chinese, you are not so sure...the longer you stay here, the more non chinese telling you you are going to have a prob fitting back to china. and they probably right: china changes rapidly, we are not changing with them because we are not there. so when we go back, we would be looking for a china as we perceived or remembered. we then become disappointed somehow somehwat...

tell me you do not change at all when you are in a different cuntry and adopt different values and try to fit in whereever you are outside china

you will have to do the same when return to china, a different china.

now the harder question: who do you think is more chinese? the chinese chinese or the overseas chinese like yourself?

why?

i am always confused: when talking about american domestic politics, i never felt foreign but very texan in most issues, like a republican, but very liberal over other issues like the bad guys underlidership of that actor. but never felt foriegn. however each time on to any international politics, i know i am not american!

but then when going back to china, talking about chinese things we cannot comment because we do not really know what they are talking about: we have our houses, our dogs, our whatever in another country we just pass through china....when we talk people laugh: you don't know what you are talking about.

but then, i always thought i am much more chinese than the chinese in china, those hang around the office complex or dept stores. the real chinese are on the farm, in the mountains....the traditional life style help to sustain the traditional values.

so just who the heck are you? do you know? when the plane landed in china, you feel like home, what about when planes landed in usa, don't you feel like home or even more so?

then you think about do you want to go back to china? on what term? for what? when? and how?

作者：250 在海归商务发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

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a big and hard question for yourself -- 250 - (2326 Byte) 2006-4-19 周三, 22:36 (2810 reads)

250: you are one of the very few people I respect -- Lee - (412 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 15:42 (392 reads)

thank you for your understanding -- 250 - (1191 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 17:05 (418 reads)

250brother, did you watch the moive " crash" -- nanokid - (303 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 01:22 (359 reads)

i used to fantasize about being hospitalized -- 250 - (1454 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 20:07 (298 reads)

"Yes." -- nanokid - (1257 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 09:24 (472 reads)

I have an answer for you: -- Lee - (220 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 22:04 (281 reads)

i feel your pain -- 250 - (704 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:57 (327 reads)

what can u do? -- ferncrest - (184 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 12:11 (339 reads)

Yes, you are right -- nanokid - (125 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 13:38 (371 reads)

since you have that concern. I would bet -- SeaKing - (243 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 01:31 (305 reads)

fully understand.... -- ferncrest - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 19:08 (306 reads)

quote:the higher one climbs the more one seeks the lonelier -- SuanNiBaiRou - (167 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 09:18 (361 reads)

thanks but i was not refering to -- 250 - (38 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 17:06 (284 reads)

I mean girls have younger influence on the surroundings -- SuanNiBaiRou - (24 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 10:15 (297 reads)

still -- 250 - (193 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 17:08 (305 reads)

Gender Discrimination -- nanokid - (6 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 10:30 (365 reads)

世界事物日新月异，你无法与时俱进，谓有承认对方，或者与之脱离。大千世界各有精彩，劝君勿掩耳盗铃， -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 06:58 (497 reads)

are you sure that you understand what 250 said? -- bluedevil168 - (92 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 09:02 (375 reads)

我明白你意思。我想说的是：不管是谁都好，当你觉得自己‘ 与众不同 ’时，你就危险了。。。 -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 14:00 (365 reads)

maybe you are right, and for your sake you should think that -- 250 - (103 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:46 (372 reads)

智者是孤独的，可是孤独的不一定都是智者。叔本华卢梭是孤独的，丑小鸭唐吉坷德啊Q也是孤独的。这就是我说的 ’危险‘。。。 -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 17:29 (394 reads)

there you go -- 250 - (275 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 20:52 (374 reads)

250 brother, did you ever sleep last night? -- bluedevil168 - (84 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 21:25 (355 reads)

i work at manufacturing company so got to go early -- 250 - (638 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 21:43 (395 reads)

Very much!!! -- nanokid - (481 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 03:46 (356 reads)

people are differently in their own bio clock systems -- 250 - (1226 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 19:47 (293 reads)

not an early bird type for me -- bluedevil168 - (668 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 22:05 (288 reads)

wait -- 250 - (194 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 23:34 (304 reads)

love what you do and do what you love -- bluedevil168 - (753 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 23:54 (328 reads)

good point -- 250 - (1177 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 19:56 (317 reads)

My parents always encourage me to do what I love to do -- nanokid - (306 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 04:03 (370 reads)

you should consider yourself blessed. -- bluedevil168 - (87 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 04:27 (330 reads)

Yes. I am totally agree with you :-) -- nanokid - (299 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 05:22 (323 reads)

you live in your own fantacies, chase rainbow -- 250 - (49 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 07:23 (366 reads)

我的回复本无多大意义，你对我的回复也无意义，可是却透露了你的气量。就算我是井底之蛙，你不乐于助人的话干吗不一笑而过呢 -- jimmychai - (96 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 13:45 (341 reads)

cannot and will not -- 250 - (519 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:44 (316 reads)

估计你是想家了。我以前想家的时候，我爸就说：‘大丈夫不怨天不尤人。该干吗干吗去，再不把电话给挂了年底就不让你回国了。。’ -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 17:09 (280 reads)

我更惨，呜呜呜！ -- nanokid - (97 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 04:17 (249 reads)

excuse me. kid? -- 250 - (304 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 20:54 (267 reads)

if u do have a HOME, u wouldn't be moaning like this. 我只想帮你。 -- jimmychai - (0 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 05:23 (228 reads)

you probably never heard of the saying -- 250 - (79 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 20:09 (257 reads)

a house does not make a home -- bluedevil168 - (122 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 22:40 (191 reads)

exactly -- 250 - (258 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 23:36 (176 reads)

What happened, a bad day? Come on, celebrate your uniqueness -- PHM - (378 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:13 (300 reads)

if you ever had the experience of feeling -- 250 - (667 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:35 (305 reads)

When I was very young I try to persuade them -- nanokid - (153 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 03:34 (224 reads)

they are not well educated... -- ferncrest - (169 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 12:18 (178 reads)

Too busy to feel lonely here. Just tell those girls get lost -- PHM - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 11:01 (199 reads)

that was just an example -- 250 - (134 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:48 (236 reads)

partially agree -- 250 - (822 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:24 (257 reads)

right.but can't change -- ferncrest - (50 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 12:21 (182 reads)

sure it is -- 250 - (61 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:51 (210 reads)

Are you the same 250 who posted those excellent career notes -- galaxyjump - (395 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 02:39 (307 reads)

welcome to the real world, or at least mine -- 250 - (1020 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 02:56 (325 reads)

我想我明白你的问题，不过我有我的答案，所以我没有困惑 -- galaxyjump - (707 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 04:24 (327 reads)

excellent point. Same situation here. -- 笑春风 - (24 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 06:26 (248 reads)

bon voyage -- 250 - (654 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 04:59 (294 reads)

"I believe in myself". Love it. I'm with you on this. That -- 笑春风 - (262 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 06:21 (291 reads)

actually, religion is not just for help -- ferncrest - (200 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 12:46 (214 reads)

so you do have your religion -- 250 - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:50 (227 reads)

not yet, maybe in the future. -- ferncrest - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 18:41 (254 reads)

do you feel like you are seeking guidance because -- 250 - (425 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 21:00 (240 reads)

religion is a new thing to me -- ferncrest - (1041 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 22:52 (175 reads)

curiosity is the force driving mankind to prgress and evolve -- 250 - (1244 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 23:15 (168 reads)

unfortunately -- 250 - (194 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 07:21 (255 reads)

理解你的感受 -- 夭夭 - (332 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 02:31 (333 reads)

give you another example -- 250 - (615 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:02 (328 reads)

okay,,, -- ferncrest - (477 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 12:35 (174 reads)

我说你一句，希望你不要生气:) -- 夭夭 - (96 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:21 (325 reads)

sorry, not sure i understand what you mean -- 250 - (25 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:26 (255 reads)

那就算了:) -- 夭夭 - (9 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 04:08 (240 reads)

i share many points expressed here by 250 brother -- bluedevil168 - (581 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 01:59 (281 reads)

thanks for sharing your thoughts -- 250 - (1412 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 02:16 (272 reads)

your life experience shapes who you are and what you think -- bluedevil168 - (1814 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:08 (273 reads)

right on -- 250 - (792 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:17 (253 reads)

thanks for the compliment. -- bluedevil168 - (934 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 03:40 (215 reads)

Well, if these really bother you, you are getting old. -- jsj - (0 Byte) 2006-4-19 周三, 23:20 (192 reads)

really? try this perspective! -- 250 - (928 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 00:06 (280 reads)

哈,二五兄,太认真了吧. 我其实只是跟您开个玩笑啦.我投降,我投降. -- jsj - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 00:29 (190 reads)

sorry -- 250 - (126 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 00:42 (222 reads)

转引连战寻根问祖时引用的唐代诗人宋之问的名句「近乡情更怯，不敢问来人」,不知适用否. -- jsj - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 00:48 (211 reads)

i guess -- 250 - (416 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 00:55 (224 reads)

My grandpa only came back China one time over 50 years -- nanokid - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 09:48 (267 reads)

and? -- 250 - (0 Byte) 2006-4-20 周四, 16:49 (223 reads)

He and my father had very hard time to each other, -- nanokid - (556 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 03:15 (273 reads)

i understand -- 250 - (186 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 20:13 (250 reads)

it could be summarized in the same U2 song -- bluedevil168 - (239 Byte) 2006-4-21 周五, 23:12 (162 reads)

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