Yet, there must be something misunderstanding. As you may know, I am always a family man with full of responsibilities.
Two years ago, I refused to become a Vice Presidnet in China, said "bye-bye" to all of my friends and quited from my company which was created by my huge effort. My reason to go was just simple - my wife had transfered out of China already and to a family, husband and wife should stay together.
I eventually made my own decision after she left BeiJing half an year , no matter how big the decision is.
Life is not always full of happiness, however. I kept fighting of my fate in the following two years. To be honest, I looked up to myself a bit when I first went out. Therefore, the starting time was not so smooth, or in other words, tough. I changed my jobs serveral times, and I even stayed at home without any job almost 1 year during the last two years!
At last, I found myself back. It is the time to say "Thanks" to my wife, because she gives me a lot of understanding and support, especially in English.
I 'd like to talk a little about the current business trip now. I am not a job mania at all. So you can understand why I raised up my case at once when I first heard about this trip of orientation and why I even had to lose this opportunity because I disagreed to go USA from the middle of Nov. Fortunately, the people in this company are pretty nice and reasonable. They adjusted our training schedule, starting from Nov. 1 and me to come back in Thanksgiving day!